KATHRYNE SAVAGE IMABAYASHI

My story

Guiding children and their parents as they are making sense of their world has been my life-time mission, with an intense focus and passion to help raise our boys better.

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       As a Canadian nomad, my wanderlust heart has lead me to a variety of places that I have called home. Whether in Canada, Japan, Lebanon, Thailand, Georgia or Qatar I have always been inspired to do my very best for children and their parents. My expertise comes not only from almost 45 years working with children from toddlers to teens, but from all that I have learned while raising a male child myself. I have spent almost three decades researching the dichotomy between what our boys are and what society often tells them they are. Together we can navigate the bumps and hiccups of parenting and empower you with a new skill-set to do so with fewer injuries!

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Why I became an advocate for boys

There was a critical turning point for me when my son was three. After this incident my view about society’s role in shaping how women relate to the male species altered drastically. I was being put on a warrior’s path.

It was a Saturday. My son and I went fishing along a river, down a country lane. After we had been there for a while, I looked up to see “a gang of 5 or 6 boys” approaching us.

Something so guttural and instinctive spread panic through me. ‘Oh my god ~ a gang is coming and they probably will hurt us both. What am I going to do to protect us?’

It turned out this ‘gang’ was a group of upper elementary boys, the same age group I was teaching at the time. I should have known better than to react solely on their size and their gender. We were in no danger at all. Quite the contrary.

My reaction disturbed me greatly. I later reflected on my instinctive reaction in the moment and attempted to understand the logic, or lack of it, behind the intensity of the emotion involved.

But then came an image that became the catalyst for my future direction. My heart broke to think that someone, someday might see MY boy walk down a path, or down a street, or in the park and that fear would be the feeling that overwhelmed them. My boy. Incomprehensible. Utterly bizarre! And solely because he is a boy.

That image of some stranger being fearful of my little guy, my compassionate and empathic child, motivated me to action. I began a crusade to learn and then teach why this societal reaction was outdated and unacceptable. I learned everything I could about boy’s development and those widely-held expectations that provided fertile ground for assumptions and prejudices. And once I was on the path of educating myself, I became committed to also educate others. It became my mission! Truly, there is nothing more powerful than a mission grounded in passion and purpose. Then add that it is a mother’s mission ~ well, mountains will be moved!

Experience

Educational Leadership Positions

Fukuoka, Japan: CEO & Founder of Littlest Angels Academy; an international preschool

Bangkok, Thailand: Early Years Coordinator; Toddler Schools Liaison

Tbilisi, Georgia: Early Years/Elementary Principal in a dual track, International Baccaleaurate (IB) school

Doha, Qatar: Creator & Inaugural Director of a Reggio-inspired Preschool

Tokyo, Japan: Director of an International Preschool

Hiroshima, Japan: Early Years/Elementary Vice Principal in an international school

Teaching Positions

Nova Scotia, Canada. Public School, Grade 1

Calgary & Vancouver, Canada. Day Care – 18 months ~ 6 years old.

Fukuoka, Japan. International School – Preschool ~ Grade 5

Beirut, Lebanon. International School – Preschool, Kindergarten, Grade 6

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Professional Development

Professional Learning Areas

Created & Presented Parent Workshops

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Personal Tidbits

I am an avid reader ~ usually with a minimum of three books on the go at any one time. I love learning!

I try to walk for a few hours every day in our beautiful natural area ~ and have come nose to nose with wild boars more often than I care to remember.

I have just completed writing my first novel, part fiction, part non-fiction. This is my story and motherly male advice to pass on to my son and the next generations.

I am driven to understand males  better so that we can all live peacefully and in harmony; respectful of our differences and supportive of our uniqueness.

Personal Tidbits

I am an avid reader ~ usually with a minimum of three books on the go at any one time. I love learning!

I try to walk for a few hours every day in our beautiful natural area ~ and have come nose to nose with wild boars more often than I care to remember.

I have just completed writing my first novel, part fiction, part non-fiction. This is my story and motherly male advice to pass on to my son and the next generations.

I am driven to understand males  better so that we can all live peacefully and in harmony; respectful of our differences and  supportive of our uniqueness.

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Achievements

Guiding a sweet little boy into becoming a kind, caring and compassionate man.

President of TAIP (Tokyo Association for International Preschools)

Created & Implemented a comprehensive Early Years Curriculum

Founded and established an International Preschool

Completed 1st novel (not yet published): What’s It All About, Mom? Shogun, Assassinations & Sea-hawks.

Living an authentic life – doing it my way

Achievements

Be your son’s greatest advocate & reach out for support

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Blog

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The Fishing Trip That Rocked My World!

December 19, 2021

When I came upon Dr. William Pollack’s book, Real Boys, I had no idea that my world was going to be turned topsy-turvy...

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